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I am fifty three year old divorced S. Indian lady and I am getting lesbian emails from Indian women? Is this new business in India and promoted by the govt as lucrative business or what? I applied for jobs in computers but I am only getting invites to have sex from Indians... Did not know this was the latest trend here, or I would not have relocated from the U.S. | | why blame government for this, if you never visited any wrong sites then just mark these emails as spam, why even bother about them and get distracted! | How do Indian people feel about lesbian and gay people? What would happen if a same-sex couple walked down the street hand in hand? | In India you will find thousands of friends holding hands while walking, particularly the girls. It doesn't meant they aer gay or lesbians. It is a norm between friends. Please do not misunderstand about such facts.
And of course like world, India is also opening up to the subject. And you many not find much annoyance but then people always observe constraint in relationships here. Even a heterosexual couple will not show much of togetherness in open. | I am a girl of 17 and I want to have a Sex-change. Help !! I am not lesbian or bisexual.? Okay, I am an Indian. I am NOT a lesbian or bisexual. I want it because girls have many barriers in their life while the men don't. The things I want ( not talking about sex) , I cannot get them while being a girl. I am not ugly, infact I am pretty and charming ( just informing).
I don't like how the girls are treated and talked and what other starts thinking and whatever like that.
If you are a girl, you will understand what I am saying.
Please write me. I really need the help | | Move to America. | A lesbian and gay marriage decision .need a mature suggestion plz help thanks!? ok im a 19 yr old indian lesbian. lesbianism isn;t legal in our society and so is not gay realtion.this guy whose 24 yr old found me at lesbian website and proposed me for a commitment marriage,that we'll stay frnds and in front of society we'll be husband n wife n so we both will be happy. being a lesbian since i cant tolerate a man getting close to me even so forget about sex with him...so is the case with him too but he told me a wierd thing.that we should have atleast a single chil of our own to resist the taunts of the society....n he even adds to this that for once we'll do it n then never...n so this way we wont be hurting each others feelings too...btu my problem is not related to feelings ... my main reason to become a lesbian is i dont want to go for sex with any man n never pregnant....i just hate loosing my virginity..i just never want to. n hes asking me exactly wat i dont want..so where it makes a diff that that whther i marry a gay or a straight?.i suggested him that we can adopt a guy n we need not tell the society abt the adoption...as far as are parents are concerned we can tell them that im not able enugh to bear a guy... but he says im a guy so im not understandign what problems are tehre of society....i think hes exagerating...i think there is a possiblity in which im sayng... n hes simply giving excuses for sex.. but then i think why wud he approach a lesb for this ??he can go for a straight girl...
what do u think what should i do?who is wrong n whose right n what should be done correct about it...please u'd b very helpful thanks....i really need a mature n sensible suggestions | | He should respect your feelings ! Many women cannot bear guyren, so adoption is the right way to go; but make sure he really wants a guy - not just sex ! ! | ARE INDIANS VERY CURIOUS IN HAVING SEX ONLY WITH THEIR HUSBAND OR THEY DO ALMOST WITH WHOMTHEY LIKE...? HI I'M GEETHA HERE.I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT INDIAN SEX.DOES A TEENAGE BOY OR GIRL START HAVING SEX FOR THEIR PLEASURE AND THEN SLOWLY IT BECOMES A HABIT FOR THEM.HOW MANY GIRLS DO U THINK THEY WILL HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IN INDIA....?MAY BE LESBIANS OR WITH ANY ONE....THEY MAY HAVE WITH FRIENDS ,COUSINS,INSIDE FAMILY AND ALL THAT...GIVE YOUR OPINION ON THIS SEX LIFE OF INDIAN TEENAGERS ..... | | Everything is going on in india. yes in modern socities and in metropolitan cities and for less extent in deep villages it happens. | Im indian, i dont have anything to live for... is ending life the best way out? my life is awful. i run around pretending to be happy, telling myself i am happy in the hope that i will eventually believe it and trick my self into being filled with joy, not hatred. but thats just wishful thinking
i have nothing going for me, im overweight, ugly, iv never had a boyfriend and im 16. never even kissed a boy actually, so i get called a lesbian at the all girls school i go to (all girls - super bitchy) and to top it off im indian.
my parents make out that theyre modern and hip and whatnot but theyre so not. im expected to marry an indian (not an arranged marriage but still..) have no sex before marriage, no boyfriends allowed etc, but my brother is allowed to do whatever?! how is that fair?
its a society dominated by men and it really angers me, why would two people bring up their guyren in england if they didnt want them to have a western upbringing. what angers me even more mad is that before my dad was married, he had a white girlfriend who he wanted to marry, his parents said no and made him marry my mum, but even after he married he continued to date the white woman.. like wtf?!
i just feel like my life is going to be a big disapointment, how can i be happy when dictation like this is in the cards for me. what would you do? iv tried talking to my mum about it, her answer is simply 'i had to accept that this is a womans place in the indian society, so do you'
and she always says how i should be happy i have more freedom than she ever did but this is just like a tease for me, being brought up totally westernized, but not bing able to follow their traditions.. you should have just raised me in india then?!
and my mum came from an abusive home so i just always thought shed want me to do what makes me happy, not what makes other people happy :/
i just want to end the pain cause its clearly not going to get better | There is an age old saying... if you can't get mad get even. I'm not talking revenge, I mean restoring some equality into your life.
Not having a boyfriend isn't an issue! What happens to those that do at your age? Babies, worries etc... Sure, I get it, you want someone to love, we all do, but easy kisses and sex etc doesn't get you love. Girls are hard to deal with it's true but they're no better off in life. Girls who go with boys at a young age may have self-esteem issues and others don't go with boys but hide it. When you meet someone you like, really like, it will suddenly all make sense as to why waiting was worth it. It's about self-respect. At 17 I had a friend who slept with a long term boyfriend and it caused nothing but issues for her. Adult have trouble with having sex, or having kissed someone, and then being dumped. Don't add to your woes by dating at the moment. Do it when it's right and not a moment before. Be confident in your choices and people can't mock you because they can't make you upset about choices you're ok with.
Yes things seem male dominated but there are choices for you if you want to take them. Get an education. Get a job. Get a job with promotion prospects. Be someones boss. Get something out of life. Value yourself by YOUR standards and not by the people around you. Sure boys in Traditional homes get to do what they want but running amok doesn't help them any.
Your parents love you. Part of becoming parents is that you realize that they're going to be the one (or few) things left of you once you die so parents try hard to ensure that a part of them gets left behind. Depending on how they are depends on what's important to them. For some people it's religion, for some people it's race and for other people it's money and this often dictates how they expect their guyren to marry. At the end of the day though who you marry is your choice. It doesn't mean they have to like it though... and that's something you'd have to sort out when you get there. Parents also judge the Quality of their guyren's lives by the quality of their own guy-hood. There's a vow as a parent... that you'll give your guyren more than you ever had as a guy, more than you ever had in life. When your mother tells you to accept things it's because it's far more than she had and more than she had is what she wants you to have. I know this all seems odd... I hope it makes sense.
When you're an adult you will be left to make your own life choices. You're westernized and I understand that this makes it difficult to integrate. You've got the pull of your community against your western upbringing but it's getting easier for the two to mix. There are other girls like you and I hope you get to meet them; so you know you're not alone in the world.
I'm sorry that your parents seem to have a complex dynamic but that happens in white familys to. It's taboo in any culture and it says more about your father than it does about your culture.
I'm sorry I can't answer all of your problems but I hope that some of what I've said helps.
(Sorry for any grammar/spelling issues... it's quite long and I don't want to edit it.) | Im indian, my life is never going to improve... should i just end it? my life is awful. i run around pretending to be happy, telling myself i am happy in the hope that i will eventually believe it and trick my self into being filled with joy, not hatred. but thats just wishful thinking
i have nothing going for me, im overweight, ugly, iv never had a boyfriend and im 16. never even kissed a boy actually, so i get called a lesbian at the all girls school i go to (all girls - super bitchy) and to top it off im indian.
my parents make out that theyre modern and hip and whatnot but theyre so not. im expected to marry an indian (not an arranged marriage but still..) have no sex before marriage, no boyfriends allowed etc, but my brother is allowed to do whatever?! how is that fair?
its a society dominated by men and it really angers me, why would two people bring up their guyren in england if they didnt want them to have a western upbringing. what angers me even more mad is that before my dad was married, he had a white girlfriend who he wanted to marry, his parents said no and made him marry my mum, but even after he married he continued to date the white woman.. like wtf?!
i just feel like my life is going to be a big disapointment, how can i be happy when dictation like this is in the cards for me. what would you do? iv tried talking to my mum about it, her answer is simply 'i had to accept that this is a womans place in the indian society, so do you'
and she always says how i should be happy i have more freedom than she ever did but this is just like a tease for me, being brought up totally westernized, but not bing able to follow their traditions.. you should have just raised me in india then?!
and my mum came from an abusive home so i just always thought shed want me to do what makes me happy, not what makes other people happy :/
i just want to end the pain cause its clearly not going to get better | | You are only 16; hang in there. It actually will get better once you become more independent. | SEX QUESTION....................? First of all am NOT A GAY !!!!
Am an Indian and two days back indian governament has legalised Gay relationaship.
I was just curious to know how two men......and two women i.e two people of same sex can have sexual intercourse with each other.
To be more specific..whre do they penetrate it (in gay case) and wat do they take in (in the lesbian case)..... | | dude are you really serious?! Google it man! I mean common, 2 guys, just think about what holes you would wanna stick yourself into on a girl. Most of the indian guys i have met here in the states are pretty pervy. shot you guys wrote the kama sutra so you know what your talking about..... you just want someone to get graphic for you for whatever reason! | Can I marry a lesbian girl? Hi,
I am 24 yrs Hindu bisexual guy looking for a bisexual/ lesbian girl less than 25-26 years old to get married. Though my introduction appears lengthy, please spend time on this and comment.
I want to get married for myself and not just for the sake of parents or society. Though I am gay/ bisexual, none of my friends realized anything odd in the relationship till date. Even I had girl friend with whom I spent wonderful time. I thought I am normal and can get marry to a normal girl and lead happy life. But unfortunately, I fell in love with a straight guy 1 and half years back and it ached my confidence and inner-conscious. He is my best friend now and he doesn't have any hint on my sexual orientation. But this incident changed my life and I decided not to get marry to any straight girl because it is as good as spoiling her life.
I am an engineer. I am optimist with my life and want some suitable partner who can be my wife/ best friend. I want some girl who is simple, educated, co-operative, average/ above-average looking and preferably south Indian (not mandatory). I don't mind if she has a partner but she should be able to balance her both personal lives without affecting society/ family. Instead, I will be lucky if girl doesn't have partner and if she is looking for well settled family life except healthy sex like straight couple. I can stand beside her as her best friend and take care of her. All I want is she should take life positively and should take marriage serious. I can be the best husband with enough flexibility and can satisfy both of our parents and society.
However, though we try to lead normal life I know it can't be 100% perfect. So, I will make sure that we both will not end up staying with either of the families. We can stay far from our families so that it will never hurt her freedom or her thinking. If nothing goes fine between us, we can always stay apart. But atleast 3-4 years till society remembers us we have to stay together.
Let me know if any girl is interested to be my adorable partner. I will be grateful from my heart for understanding the situation and co-operating for the same.
Am I taking the right path? | | It might be difficult for you to be open to your family and society, but I feel as if you should come out. either way it will be difficult for you to find such a girl who agrees to do this anyways. i know it must hurt for you with the society but they need to accept who you are. good luck. | What could this dream mean? I dreamed that I was sitting in a circle surrounded by all girls. The group consisted of all different races and backgrounds. We were all talking together and laughing. There was this one girl in particular who kept staring at me. She was gorgeous. She was not black or white. She might have been Indian or some other race. Of course I stared back, and everytime I did, she would smile. Then we all started talking about attractiveness and what type of people we were attracted to. I voiced that even though I am African American, I preferred other races different than mine. Then the girl who kept looking at me spoke up. And said she agreed with me. That she liked a "different race" other than her own. Then she pointed out that she thought I was pretty and she had been wanting to kiss me eversince I got in the room. All the other girls spoke up and dared us to. Then the next thing I knew- I was having lesbian sex! In my dream- at the end, I bled which showed that I lost my virginity. | | well maybe its telling you what you really want, maybe you a full lesbian |
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